Making Peace With The Mirror.

Reflecting Your Way to Transformation through mirror work

Kay J

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Photo by Brecht Corbeel on Unsplash

“Mirror, mirror on the wall,” we often begin in fairytales, seeking external validation. But what if the truest reflection we seek lies not in a magical pane of glass, but within ourselves? Mirror work, a powerful self-discovery technique, utilizes the literal mirror as a gateway to profound inner transformation. By gazing into our own eyes and engaging in honest self-dialogue, we unlock the potential to manifest the life we truly desire.

At its core, mirror work is about cultivating self-compassion and replacing negative self-talk with empowering affirmations. It’s a practice that feels radical at first. We’re so accustomed to the inner critic’s constant barrage that offering kindness to ourselves can feel awkward, even insincere. But with consistent reflection, a shift occurs. The harsh pronouncements soften, replaced by gentle observations. “I feel discouraged today,” you might acknowledge, rather than launching into a tirade about inadequacy. This simple act of acknowledging your emotions, without judgment, creates space for self-compassion to bloom.

Imagine a wilted flower in a neglected garden. Harsh words are like leaving it parched in the sun. But with gentle affirmations, like offering water and nurturing soil, the flower begins to…

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Kay J
Kay J

Written by Kay J

Distorted and delusional dog mom. If you want to start writing your story here is my debut memoir “Diary of Cliches” https://amzn.to/4h5qhrL

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